How is it that men and women can differ so much sexually sometimes? You know I hear a lot of people say how men are not built to be monogomis and women are. Why? Why are women? Why is it assumed that she doesn't want something more? I can't understand how two people can be together for so long yet it seems they can be on such a different path when it comes to sex. Like for me, I like all variations of sex, I can have sex 24/7 . I am for all intense purposes a sex addict, so maybe that doesn't help. But my partner he loves his sex in the morning, he would much prefer to get it in the morning. Here is the thing, I prefer it at night for one main reason, I like to make love once in awhile. I mean make love, not half as love. Most men assume when a woman says "make love to me" that she means 5 minutes of kissing and touching than 10 minutes of slow sex. When I personally say to my partner to make love to me I am meaning the old days, back 5 years ago when it was like he was trying to keep me. You know like how a woman keeps up her looks a man keeps up the love making.
I want to be kissed, without having my hand slid down to his cock. I want to be stroked everywhere BUT my crotch. I want to feel his lips making love to my collar bone, I want to feel like our bodies are becoming more than just two bodies laying together. I remember the first time we really ever made love, ironically it is what led to me telling him i loved him.
I had just come out of the shower and was in the bedroom getting ready to get dressed. I had nothing but a towel on and he was in the room with me. He came over to me and started kissing me softly. As he kissed me he slowly removed the towel and threw it off to the side. He lay me down on the bed before him and knelt down beside me, kissing my lips one more time before he began to kiss my body. He worked his way from the top all the way down to the top of my feet. It seemed like it took hours for him to reach my feet. Than slowly he began to work his way back up. Stopping to work his tongue over my clit. Not wanting to making me cum, just adding to the intense feeling I was already having. He came back up, his lips making love to my flesh slowly up my neck and kissing me passionately again as he brought himself between my legs.He continued to kiss me, teasing me with himself. After a bit he finally entered me slowly. He made love to me for what seemed like over an hour at least before rolling so that he was under neath me and I sat above him. Leaning over to kiss him as i rode him to our completion. When all was said and done, it honestly had lasted at least an hour to and hour and a half. With actual sex only being maybe 45 mins. *sighs* you know just because one has been together for along time or they have kids, DOES NOT mean that they have to loose those kinds of nights.
Maybe I have watched to many romance movies................................................................................